Thursday, January 25, 2007






















Dear Adri,
Dad made it home last night. He seems good.

This candle was burning on out kitchen counter this morning.
I thought it was a bit odd, but figured he was just being strange.
He is my father after all.

So when he was about to leave the house, I blew it out.

"You blew my candle out" he pouted cheerfully.

"Well, yes, we are all leaving the house" I replied. It seemed logical enough.

"But that's my Yartzite candle for Adri." He said.

"Um, Dad, it's a little early, isn't it? She died on the 6th of February."
I said, wondering if Alzheimer's was kicking in early.

"Well, by the standard Caesarian calendar, yes. But but the Jewish calendar, it's actually today. We can light another one on Februaruy 6th." He pronounced, proud to know this little bit of information.

As I relit the candle, I had to wonder to myself, Adri, would you have even known that??

Anyway, what does one say? "Happy Anniversary"???

But don't worry, I assured him we'd light another one to last the full 24 hours while he went to his brother's house in Decatur.

I couldn't find the official Yartzite candle at Kroger's so I decided to get one in cheery melon. Don't worry, I'll get a nice jarred Yankee Candle for you for the 6th.

Oh, and we had an offer on the house.

I think we may be at an agreement. It's much lower than we hoped, but at this point, not having to pay for the uncertainty of when it will sell may be worth the difference.

Keep your fingers crossed.

Much love,
Kissy kissy!

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Wednesday, January 24, 2007

A, et. al.,

FYI: It's listed!

NM on the road, due in late tonight. Will be with siblings in Decatur tomorrow.

Getting over the flu and COMPLETELY swamped with work here.

Will let you know when I'm up for air.

Updates forthcoming, PRN.


KKBBMM

Monday, January 15, 2007

24 on Fox vs. Rome on HBO?

Is that like even a REAL question? Well given the airtimes for both, yes.

Okay this is the deal. Two popular shows. Two reasonably good shows. Both about politics and societies in transition, one based in historical fact and firmly rooted in riveting drama, the other a propaganda laden fear fest masking as entertainment. It's a pity that they should even be in the same league, because really the superiority and depth of one makes the other sallow, tepid and utterly predictable by comparison.

I recall you thought Rome was too bloody to watch A, though Dad and I were as addicted to it as you were to Monday night football or the Sapranos. (And you thought Rome was too bloody??) Last night the Season II premier picked up immediately after the brutal stabbing of Caesar by select members of the Roman Senate. The scenery was compelling and the story line was as rich and dramatic as any regardless of the era. It was truly a time when men (and women) were tested and when the foundations of modern society were molded by brilliance, cunning and ruthlessness.

The acting in Rome is spell-binding. It's hard to fathom a show more lush with raw talent. And that it is only television, is like saying Beethoven's Ode to Joy is just a song. It's better than that. Casting for Rome found actors who personify these familiar characters and make them achingly familiar.

Last night, I swear I could smell the sweat of that covered Brutus as he recounted the stabbing to his eager mother, or taste the salt of the blood on the faces of the soldiers battling for the lives of their children. The smoke and ash of the funeral pyre was as real as the stench of the streets of ancient Rome. One could feel the coarseness of the fabric they wore and hear the din of horse hooves on stone roads.

But more than that, wrapped in this wash of extraordinary reality of ancient Rome, the story line slid gracefully as the emerging characters vied for power and position in the empire devoid of it's emperor
.
Nothing was contrived in the execution of the storyline. It fit together as well and enduringly as the stones of the Apian Way.

24, and the adventures of Jack Bauer were flat by comparison. Yes, of course, it's easy to get caught up in the adrenaline high that is packed in to the 40 minutes of each hour of another one of Jack's very bad days. Plot twists and turns in season 6 are not only expected now, they become the reason we get on the roller coaster again. Quickly, building up the first hill and then plunging down an abyss and around a thrown against the sides and through blind curves. But beyond the suspense, what is there?

The dialog is so predictable, and repeatable it verges on comic. After shooting his devoted partner Jack wretches and says "I don't know if I can do this anymore" to which the President says "You will because you have to". Oh, yeah. That's right. Duty. Let's hear it for duty to the country. That what it always comes down to, isn’t it?

But what 24 fails to acknowledge is that the duty for freedom, is closely tied to logic for getting rid of those very freedoms they claim to protect and cherish.

Detention centers for Islamic Americans serving as a prime source of information to save the country. The devilish Presidential Security Advisory played by Peter MacNicol is almost a re-enactment of his role as the fiendish museum director in Ghost Busters 2. The use of Kumar for the newly turned terrorist delivery boy is strange - there is no compelling reason to think he'd quickly turn against his obvious American upbringing. And even the normally feisty character Chloe is insipid in trying to get the two colleagues she works with to stop sparring over her affections.

Normally, the romp of 24 would be good fun. But it’s getting a bit tired. And at what point do we grow weary of the blatant propaganda?

Propaganda like the “I want my death to be for something!” Jack grumbles heroically before being left chained to a sewage grate for the terrorist? Anyone ever see the sacrifice of an animal? Not too different, but generally better surroundings?

Propaganda like staging the scene in front of a back lit American Flag where the American can’t bring himself to torture a prisoner, because he nobly doesn’t believe it will bear fruit, while the bestial Muslim guts his former comrade to get the information?

Propaganda like stating that all the prisoners held in the tropical detention facility are colleagues of the terrorist bad guys, while the all white American family are victims lead to the slaughter by their evil tawny skinned neighbor.

And of course the propaganda that comes with the sound cues that tell us how to feel and how we should react to the characters. In the episode where the small nuclear weapon is introduced, (9 – 10) listen as Karen Hayes (Or real life White House Advisory Karen Hughes?) explains that the soviets devised a nuke so small it is known as a “suitcase bomb” … cue muffled explosion!

Oh come on.

Listen folks, I enjoy the cheap thrills of 24 as much as the next adrenaline junky, but there is a reason that the White House loves this show. There is a reason that in the world of 24 the good guys listen watch Fox News and the bad guys watch CBN. There is a reason that this particular show gets top billing and is pushed at us as if our lives depend on it.

It’s blatant jingoistic fear mongering propaganda.

Watch it, enjoy it even. But please make the effort to be aware of the messages it is sending. Because as it has been said, those who ignore the lessons of history are doomed to repeat them. And if you need a refresher course on those, HBO Rome is a richly rewarding treat to cleanse the palate.

Thursday, January 11, 2007

Hi Again A,





Not that I'm really fixating on tomb stones, but I REALLY like this one:





Heeeheeheeheeheeeeee!

Kissy kissy

Wednesday, January 10, 2007

Hi A,

Thought you might like this:

What does Love mean? A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, "What does love mean?"
The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think :
  • "When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love." Rebecca- age 8
  • "When someone loves you, the way they say your name is differen t. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth." Billy - age 4 (I love this one)
  • "Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other." Karl - age 5
  • "Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs." Chrissy - age 6
  • "Love is what makes you smile when you're tired." Terri - age 4
  • "Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK." Danny - age 7
  • "Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss" Emily - age 8
  • "Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen." Bobby - age 7
  • "If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate," Nikka - age 6 (we need a few million more Nikka's on this planet)
  • "Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday." Noelle - age 7
  • "Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well." Tommy - age 6
  • "Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken." Elaine-age 5
  • "Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford." Chris - age 7
  • "Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day." Mary Ann - age 4
  • "I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones." Lauren - age 4
  • "When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you." (what an image) Karen - age 7
  • "Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn't think it's gross." Mark - age 6
  • "You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget." Jessica - age 8

And the final one -- Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge. The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child.
  • The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife. Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there. When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said, "Nothing, I just helped him cry"


As you would say: WHAAAAAAAA!!

Kissy Kissy

Monday, January 08, 2007

For my tombstone:

LIFE is not a journey to the grave
with the intention of arriving safely
in a pretty & well preserved body,
but to skid in broadside, totally
work out and proclaiming
"WOW!! WHAT A RIDE!!"

just in case you were wondering...

Tuesday, January 02, 2007

Hi A.,

Today's Master Card Commercial:

Extendable dog leashes for Molly and April: $75

Adidas Running Shoes: $69

iPod: $?? (Something something dollars)

Being able to walk a pack of 4 dogs simoultaneously for 4 miles without getting tangled AND maintaining my groove: PRICELESS!!


Kissy kissy!